Sex and our sexuality is a part of who we are as human beings and we should be able to choose to have a satisfying sex life without guilt, shame or dysfunction.
So many things impact our sex life; how we feel about ourselves, our beliefs around sex, sexual attitudes, interests, desires, porn usage, intimacy needs. As we move through life sometimes our needs and desires also change.
Sex is still rather a taboo subject and this can cause us to be misinformed, or led to feel shame and guilt for our natural wants and needs. Society projects confusing messages around sex and sexuality; what is normal, how much you should be having, different expectations based on gender, the type of sex that's acceptable, how you should feel, how you should look. Pornography usually focuses on sex without emotional intimacy, having minimal foreplay and lots of penetration. It also features actors with certain physical characteristics, leading to users having unrealistic expectations around sex .
Sex can be one of the most enjoyable experiences for consenting adults. Great sex comes from good communication, feeling confident in ourselves, being able to say no, knowing our own wants and needs, being open minded in exploring our sexuality and tastes, and being free from any guilt or shame around our sexuality.
You have the right to ask for help with sexual issues. I am non-judgemental and easy to talk to. Your sexual preferences, kinks and desires will not criticised. With the use of hypnosis, NLP and mindfulness big shifts can be made that allow you to relief from your past problems and allow you to have an enjoyable and fulfilling sex life.
Some examples of Sexual Issues I treat:
Lack of arousal
Porn related issues
Sex when Ageing
Sexual Guilt or Shame
Fear of dating